Phillip,
I have made a bit of a study of heavy weather sailing in our type of boat.
Have had limited prolonged experience and that was enough to get me thinking seriously about the matter.
Last year we had to mark time out side the Rip (Port Philip) for 3 hours waiting slack water. We had 30 to 35 knots with some breaking seas to contend with. Onshore breeze. Packed away the main and reached with the #2. Later found I had streached it that day (and it is a heavy one).
The way I see it, this is the routine.
If you have sea room as the wind gets up one can heave to. The sails must be the ones you would use sailing in the same conditions. In 30 knots I would have a storm jib and 3rd reef.
As the wind picks up, pack up the sails and and lay ahull with bare poles.
Breaking waves could force the decision then to run off (assume storm boards over the side windows early in the piece). With wind that strong you can run off with bare poles. Nick was getting over 12 knots boat speed in those conditions in the Trans Tasman.
That will be very hard work and dangerous. A breaking wave can take the boat with it at over 20 knots.
A drogue will sort all that out.
This is where science and technology helped me make the decision to go for a Jordan Series Drogue.
Single component drogues can collapse or be accelerated by braking waves. The idea of the Series Drogue is that it will span more that wave so that if some individual cones collapse the others will hold.
The next aspect is where to attach it. Sailboats have more area in front of the centre of rotation so the bows will blow off if there is no forward motion. You will probably have noticed that your boat will yaw from side to side when it is anchored in a bit of a blow. When the wind gets up boats have been measured to yaw 40 degrees and more - so not very comfortable, healing over at extreme angles and lots of fluctuating loads (chafe will also become a problem). Boats with a bluff bow will rise better to the waves but with a fine entry (Top Hat) will dig in with the decks awash.
If however the drogue is attached to the stern (by a bridle) the yawing is decreased remarkably (10 degrees each way) and the stern being more buoyant will rise. The companionway stormboards and supporting structure must be really sturdy to take a boarding wave but you will be safe inside.
As you say, planning the trip could avoid all the drama with a good weather forecast and length of journey to suit.
Down our way we have a stretch of water called Bass Strait. It can get pretty nasty with little warning. Relatively shallow, it produces some incredible seas at times. I just reckon that, like the storm jib, 3rd reef, radio and EPIRB a series drogue would be a good bit of kit to have on board.
You can download the US Coast Guard report of the testing of the device as well as Jordans notes on it.
Cheers,
Tom